Monday, September 8, 2014

It's a little rough out there right now!

In the past day or so, reports of discouraging happenings have been coming my way.

Friends are sharing a long list of painful and disheartening events:
    ~ A car that was broken into…

    ~ A little grandchild badly burned on a hot stove…

     ~ A mother who has fallen and broken her wrist…

     ~ A grandfather who is trying to recover from pneumonia…

   ~ A mom who is losing it – literally…

   ~ A car that has bitten the dust…

   ~ A job that will never materialize…

   ~ A child who has walked away from the church…

   ~ A heart that is in pain…

   ~ A day that looks impossible…

   ~ A marriage that may not survive…

I don’t know where today finds you, but if you are like most of us – you may be dealing with something challenging right now.

As I opened God’s Word this morning, I was reminded that challenges have been around since the earliest of days. So many of the books of the Bible were written about and by people who were struggling with life’s ordeals.

David is one of my favorite Bible characters; he writes with such honestly and insight. His words spoke to my heart this morning to encourage me. I pray that the words he penned will encourage your heart as well.

Consider just a few of his prayers – the way he cried out to God when he was hurting and in trouble:

“I cry out to you because You answer me.
 So tilt Your ears toward me now—

Listen to what I’m saying!”
(Psalm 17:6, CEB)


“Bow down Your ear to me,

Deliver me speedily;

Be my rock of refuge,

A fortress of defense to save me.”
(Psalm 31:2, NKJV)

“Save me and rescue me,

For You do what is right.

Turn Your ear to listen to me,
And set me free.”
(Psalm 71:2, NLT)

“Bend down, O Lord,
And hear my prayer;

Answer me, for I need Your help.”
(Psalm 86:1, NLT)

Don’t turn away from me

In my time of distress.

Bend down to listen,

And answer me quickly when I call to You.”
(Psalm 102:2, NLT)


What’s most amazing about these cries for help is that God heard them – every one.

Consider some of God’s responses to David’s pleas for help:

Every time I call to you, God, You answer me.”
(Psalm 17:6, ERV)

“I will call to You whenever I’m in trouble,

And You will answer me.”
(Psalm 86:7)



Because He bends down to listen,

I will pray as long as I have breath!”
(Psalm 116:2, NLT)


“I love God because He listened to me,

Listened as I begged for mercy.

He listened so intently as I laid out my case before Him.

God is gracious—it is He who makes things right,

Our most compassionate God.

God takes the side of the helpless;

When I was at the end of my rope,
He saved me.”
(Psalm 116:2 & 6, MSG)

No matter where you are and what you are going through today, remember this: you can call out to your God anytime. 

He hears you...



He cares deeply about you...


He is YOUR heavenly Father...


He loves you...


He bends down to listen to you...


 and He will answer you.


Why not take a minute and talk to Him right now?

Blessings to you as you do,
Melanie

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Are you missing a blessing?

It was just a simple message in three short sentences.

It came by way of a text message to my cell phone.

It simply said,
 
“You’ve been heavy on my heart all week.
I’ve been praying constantly for you.
Just wanted you to know.”

There is no way my friend could have known how burdened our hearts were that particular week. We were praying over an issue we hadn’t discussed with anyone.

As I read her timely message, I felt like it came straight from heaven.

God impressed upon my friend’s heart to think of my family, to pray for us, and then to let me know about it.

I was blown away and blessed by a simple word of encouragement at the exact moment I needed to hear it.

I felt like God Himself had sent me an expression of His love.

But the thought came to me...

      ·But what if my friend hadn’t been “in touch” with the Lord?

     ·What if she hadn’t been prayerful and sensitive to the Holy Spirit?

     ·What if she had neglected to send that text message to me that day?

Then, we both would have missed out on a sweet blessing.


“Missed blessings”

~ Do you have some? I know I do!

Has God laid it on your heart recently to call someone, to send a letter, to stop by and check on someone, to invite a friend over to dinner, or to give a gift to someone else?

~ Did you do it?

~ Did you follow through?

Or, did you miss the blessing and the opportunity to be blessed in return?

Personally, I believe we miss blessing opportunities all the time.

    We mean to do something...

    We think about giving something...

    We even pray about sharing a blessing with someone else.

But, we never quite get around to it.

Today, someone in my life and in your life is praying for a miracle, for a little cash, for a friend, for a word of hope, or for something else. 

They are petitioning heaven, and heaven wants to use us to answer their prayers.

    *  Maybe they need an act of service:
o   A senior adult needs some assistance with yard work.

o   A new mom needs some help with her housework.

 
o   That single mom really could use a babysitter.

o   That friend with cancer needs a ride to the doctor and someone to stay with her while she waits.

o   You sense God is leading you, but time has just gotten away from you.

z Why not call that person today?


   *  Possibly someone in your life needs your time:
  o   To come and sit with them,

  o   To hear their hurts with compassion,

  o   To laugh with them,

  o   To take the time to play a board game with them,

  o   To enjoy a long walk with them,

  o   To spend quality time with them.  You know God wants you to give this person your concern and your time.

z Will you contact them tonight?


   *  Maybe God has put it on your heart to give someone your physical touch and affection.
o   Maybe it’s a senior adult who needs more hugs,

o   Or a neglected child who could use a friend to hold them.

o   God has encouraged you to open your arms and extend the gift of physical touch.

z Will you open your heart and your arms?


   *  There could be a friend, neighbor or family member who desperately needs to hear an encouraging word today. 
o   It’s never been easier to send hope via email,

o   Or Facebook,
 
   o   Or a text message,

   o   Or a phone call,

   o   Or even an old fashioned card in the mailbox.


z Will you send a word of hope today?

“So speak encouraging words to one another.
Build up hope so you’ll all be together in this,
no one left out, no one left behind.
I know you’re already doing this;
just keep on doing it.”
(1 Thess. 5:11, MSG)


   *  Finally, there may be a person in your sphere of influence who needs a tangible miracle today
o   A bag of groceries,

o   A sack of nice clothes that your kids have outgrown,

o   That trampoline or basketball goal that is just sitting in your yard or driveway,

o   Money – cash or a gift card,

o   Use of that extra car that is just sitting in your garage,

o   Use of your lake house for a much-needed getaway,

o   You have so much, and you could easily share a little of it.

z Will you offer some tangible or financial kindness today?


Why should we be willing to do this - to bless others?

1} The Bible tells us to do the right thing - to do good.

“So then, anyone who knows the right thing to do and fails to 
do it is committing a sin.” James 4:17, CJB

“But if a person knows what he should do and he does not do it, 
he has done something wrong.”  
Js. 4:17, WE

~ Wonder how many times God led us to do
good and we didn’t do it?

~ Wonder whose prayers were not answered as quickly
because of our disobedience?

~ Wonder how many people the Spirit had to impress
upon before He found someone willing to obey?

~ Wonder what blessings we missed out on today?


2} If we bless others, we will ourselves be blessed. When we give to others what we need, we will be filled with joy.

“Generous persons will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.”  Proverbs 11:25, CEB

“Generosity will be rewarded: Give a cup of water,  and you will receive
 a cup of water in return.”  Prov. 11:25, CEV

“Give to others, and God will give to you. Indeed, you will receive a full measure, a generous helping, poured into your hands—all that you can hold. The measure you use for others is the one that God will use for you.”  Luke 6:38, GNT


Someone around you needs a blessing RIGHT NOW.

They are crying out, and God is tapping you on the shoulder.

~ Will you follow through?

~ Will you be the hands and the feet of Jesus today?

~ Will I?

I pray that we will!

Blessings,
Melanie

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Are You Clinging to God's Character?

While reading through a wonderful book by Max Lucado this week, I came across a suggestion that he made in a short section of a chapter (just one paragraph).

The chapter was discussing ways to continue to hope in God even when you didn’t see Him, sense Him, hear Him, or feel like He was doing anything.

Max’s simple, yet profound suggestion was this: “Cling to God’s Character.”

He went on to list of some of the attributes of God’s character to which we can cling.

A few of his suggestions include:
  • ·      He is still sovereign.
  • ·      He still knows my name.
  • ·      Angels still respond to His call.
  • ·      The death of Jesus still saves souls.
  • ·      God is still faithful.
  • ·      He is not caught off guard.
  • ·      He uses everything for His glory and my ultimate good.

This list could go on and on. There is really no limit to the amazing traits we could record.

After closing Lucado's chapter and walking away from my reading time, I began to think on ways that I could better and more faithfully cling to God’s character.

~ How could I focus more readily on God’s faithfulness?

~ What might I do to cause my mind to more quickly and consistently focus on the character of the Lord?

~ How might I encourage my family to think more about God’s goodness?

~ How could I exhort others to ponder more on God’s great character?

In my musings, I came up with an idea – why not make some physical, tangible displays of God’s faithful character?

Why not come up with some ways to post, place, hang up, and put these character traits up in our home and in our world?

So, with the help of Pinterest and my wonderfully creative daughter, we brainstormed a few ways to more intentionally focus our attention on the great character of our God. These are just a few ideas; many more could be added.

Here are just a few ways to display the faithful character of God in our homes and in our lives:

1) Idea One – Use a bulletin board.

Ø Fill it with photos of friends and family – both old and new. Choose photos that will make you thankful to the Lord for all He has done for you and your family.

My Bulletin Board
Ø Place uplifting quotes and positive sayings about the Lord on this board.

Ø Add favorite Bible verses to the board. Select those that give you much hope.

Ø Place this bulletin board in a spot where you will see it daily.

Ø  Each day as you pass by, a verse, motto, or encouraging word should “stand out” to you. 

Ø My bulletin board helps me to focus on the wonderful character of our God.


2) Idea Two – Type up a list and keep it in your prayer notebook.

Ø List 5-10 characteristics of our God and His character that you believe and hold firmly to. 

Ø Those characteristics I listed include:
1} God is always with me, beside me, and watching over me.
2} God is always at work – in me, around me, through me, and for me.
3} The Lord will fight for me.
4} God bends down to listen to me.
5} God will always provide for me.
6} God has perfect timing.
7} The Lord is my strength.
8} God has an amazing plan for my life.
9} God is everything I need.
10} The Lord is always able to do exceedingly, abundantly beyond all that I ask or think.

Ø Add photos, pictures, or printed verses that support this characteristic of the Lord.  (I printed verses and quotes from Pinterest, but you could easily just write them out).

Ø Put this list in your prayer or devotional notebook so that you can look at it each morning as you spend time alone with the Lord.  Photos of my list and notebook are below:
My Prayer Notebook with Two Pages

Closeup of Notebook Page

Page in Notebook 

Ø This list will be available to give you hope each day and to remind you of the Lord’s faithfulness.


3) Idea Three – Use a large picture frame with square photos.

Ø Obtain a frame with no backing or glass.

Ø Add twine and clothes pins to the frame with a staple gun.

Ø Then, add your photos, verses, quotes, and other items which encourage you about the Lord and His character.  Below, you can see the frame that we made.  The square photos were sent to Walgreens Photo via their app and my Instagram account.

Our frame with photos, verses and favorite quotes.

Ø Hang this frame in a prominent place where you will see it often to remind you of God and His character.


4) Idea Four – Use a smaller picture frame with small cards.

Ø This idea is similar to "Idea Three," but the frame is much smaller.

Ø Obtain a frame, silver cording, and smaller clothes pins.  Spray paint the clothes pins silver.

Ø Add the cording and clothes pins to the frame with a staple gun.  I've added a couple of pictures that I saw on the Internet for suggestions.

Empty Frames
One photo at a time
Ø Then write out some traits of the Lord (that encourage your heart) on cardstock.  

Ø Attach these cards to the silver cord and hang the frame in a prominent place.  Mine is hanging in the kids’ bathroom on the wall next to their mirror.  They can't miss it!

Our "Character of God" Smaller Frame
Ø My hope is to encourage my children with reminders of the faithfulness of God.


5) Idea Five – Put a list on the refrigerator noting character traits of our God, or put Bible verses on the fridge so that the whole family can see them.  

This site offers free downloads if you'd like to just print some off some verses:  http://www.bibleparent.com/email/w25learn.html

 I also found this idea for making verse cards with younger children:





6) Idea Six – Put Scripture verse promises everywhere!

Ø Write them on cards; put them in frames

Ø Post them on Twitter; put verses on your Facebook wall

Ø Add Scripture to your Instagram

Ø And place God’s Word all over your home, work place, and even in your car.

Ø Having God’s Word in your line of sight constantly will help and encourage you on the hardest days.


7) Idea Seven – What do you think?

Do you have some other suggestions for how to practically cling to the Lord and His character?

Have you done some things around your home or business that you’d be willing to share?

I’d love to hear some of your ideas and suggestions.


My prayer today is that my family will cling more closely to God’s character – no matter what is going on in our lives.  

I pray that you and your family will do this same.

Blessings to you,   Melanie